Is 16 a right time to learn driving or 18 or 25……does a person who sits in driver’s seat at 25 for the first time be less apprehensive abt it than a person at 18????
Is it easier to go to school at 5 yrs than at 3????if u put a kid in kindergarden or nursery at 5 instead of 3 will be easily leave his mothers hand and go smiling to school on the first day????
Is a surgical resident who does his first surgery at 30 more confident than a surgical resident at 26???in india we go to medical or dental school at 18..and in usa its 22 at the earliest so wen they r cutting the cadavers, are the students there more prepared less scared than the students who cut the cadavers at 18???
Some people become parents at 25….some at 30…so are the people who become parents at 30 better parents than those at 25??? Our grandparents were parents when they were 19 or even earlier…did they do a bad job at raising our parents???? That too 6 or 7 children….are the parents of today doing a better job than our grandparents…if yes , why r there more cases of shootings , suicides, and depression etc etc today than in our parents’ times or even our times wen we grew up…..
What is the right age to read harry potter 8 , 18 or 28????? Don’t people of all age groups read it even though its a kids book :)
What is the right age to choose a career 16 ,18 or 25…..here we decide which general stream( SCI ARTS OR COMMERCE ) at 16…then at 18 we decide if we wanna go to med school engg or CA or architecture or law…..and then stick with what we chose at 18 for most of our lives….
Wen is it ok to lose ones parent….if u lose our parents wen v r older is the pain less???? Of course its tragic to lose ur parents wen u r in your teens or younger….but is it less painful wen we r fifty?? My granddad died wen he was 97…so all his kids were 50 plus wen he died but it was still bad as it seemed he was always here with us….there was never a time in my life wen he was not around so it was not at all easy wen he died at 97 to let him go….it was not as if oh ok he lived a good nice life and he was old so it was easy to tell him goodbye….my friends dad died last yr..he was 45…she is my age…and I was low of a long time thinking it cud happen to me too…I slept with my parents in their room holding their hands for sometime…
Wen is ok to lose ur spouse????28 / 58 / 78….is it less at 28 as u r not yet attached to that person as u married jus for a couple of yrs…..or is it less at 78 thinking that u almost spent ur lifetime with that person that u tired of being with that person????
is a person too old or too young to play a videogame????
Well am sure u got the message abt what I am saying….there is never a right time for these things….they jus happen when they have to happen….and somethings have to be done wen they r to be done….it doesn’t make it any easier when u r older nor is it that difficult wen u r younger……
And somethings r better done earlier than later…like learning different languages , ballet dancing , gymnastics…..coz we r more openminded ,flexible ,supple ,malleable when v r younger than wen we r older….as we get older we get more and more firmly entrenched in our thinking, our likes, our dislikes…we all tend to think our thinking is most right ,we become more independent ,more headstrong so its difficult to adjust to anothers’ way of thinking…
I know its getting too long a post…..but all I am saying is don’t compartmentalize ur life….life cannot be lived in sections part by part….