thats the way it is....

this is in connection with my two posts MY NEXT FEW DAYS n HOW DID IT GO....
was gonna write this before only...but due to obvious reasons cud not do it...

well all i wanna say is...thats the way life is...v plan few things...expect them to happen...try hard for things to happen the way we want...n what happens is something else only...ya there r few pleasant surprises...but along wit them r not so pleasant happenings...

something as short as a weekend has made me realise this....ya its happened before too but i guess i was too busy to notice it....but these days as i m relatively free i view everything that happens as a third person...try n see some logic in it..or see if there is something doable about it or no...

n i have realised that other than moving ahead with the flow..there is not much v can do about it....as i read JOHN LENNON quote : LIFE IS SOMETHING THAT HAPPENS WHEN V R BUSY PLANNING...

v have to be aware of it that this doesnt happen with us......its better to take things in stride n move ahead than asking why what how...n ruminating over it...

it doesnt mean v stop working towards our goals n our wishes n our dreams...but jus be ok if things dont happen our way..others dont see things the way v do...jus keep doing it...jus keep working...u never know...some surprise may prop up behind some bend v cant see.....

N in the end..generally alls well....nothing is so bad or such disaster as v make it out to be at that point.....

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Nachi said…
nice philosophy here sis...but like i say, you should have listened to me in the first place. i always say the same shit!

life is like a box of rum chocolates and semi-naked women on a tropical beach paradise...only that it never happens that way.

:)

guess i shall see ya soon. will be there for Anu's engagement. so i hold up my end of the deal to be in Mumbai. i get to keep my promise!