Thursday, November 15, 2007

Dream

And now, the end is near;
And so I face the final curtain.
My friend, Ill say it clear,
Ill state my case, of which Im certain.

Ive lived a life thats full.
Ive traveled each and evry highway;
And more, much more than this,
I did it my way.

Regrets, Ive had a few;
But then again, too few to mention.
I did what I had to do
And saw it through without exemption.

I planned each charted course;
Each careful step along the byway,
But more, much more than this,
I did it my way.

Yes, there were times, Im sure you knew
When I bit off more than I could chew.
But through it all, when there was doubt,
I ate it up and spit it out.
I faced it all and I stood tall;
And did it my way.

Ive loved, Ive laughed and cried.
Ive had my fill; my share of losing.
And now, as tears subside,
I find it all so amusing.

To think I did all that;
And may I say - not in a shy way,
No, oh no not me,
I did it my way.

For what is a man, what has he got?
If not himself, then he has naught.
To say the things he truly feels;
And not the words of one who kneels.
The record shows I took the blows -
And did it my way!



hope i live upto this words.....inspired me a lot..

Saturday, October 6, 2007

happy birthday to me........

well after a long long wait....(a yr is too long to wait for this one special occasion) my birthday finally will arrive in some 15 min....oct i feel takes too long to come...
m really excited..its gonna be my 24th b'day..well m a big girl now i think....
m preparing for NBDE..i pray to lord that m able to prepare well n get good scores so that i get admission in a dental school in the coming yr....
lets c...i m gonna give it a best shot....
this coming yr it seems is gonna be a very happening one....if things go well its gonna be a very positive progressive yr for me n my family...
will be a tough one too...but now m prepared...guess m ready to see the world, face new challenges..
recently was unwell...got appendisectomy done...today mom removed stitches...
felt so good to be able to eat after being jus on juices soups n IV drip for 5 days.....
feels great to be healthy..though i ll take some more time to be totally fine...
its a nice way to begin a yr.....being healthy...really last week was tough on me n on mom dad...
even a minor surgery took its toll on us...esp as mom dad had to do the hosp shifting work too...
m so glad the illness jus passed me n on my birthday m quite fine...
ketty masi n shubu r coming tomo....m so excited abt that...probably mirafoi manojfua jasufoi n bhanufoi too will come...
feels great to spend my b'day with my family after a long long time....
will miss my darling mithu though...she is busy with her prelims....is at karad....love u lots sis...miss u...she has promised to come shopping with me once she comes home...to get me a gift n my birthday shopping too....will have a good time then too...looking forward to it
well the 15 min r up....my birthday is come finally.......
signing off now....friends calling n messaging....
bye folks...

Wednesday, September 12, 2007

janmastami....

below is the link to pics of janmastami both at our home n at bhanufoi's home....had a good time with ushma n dhaval...missed u all mirafoi ,manojfua,tanvi raja sujalben vikjiju.....

http://picasaweb.google.com/rhythm710/Janmastami07

Beauty and Money.....

two things most of us r hypocrites abt......we say something when its concerning others and something else when it is regarding ourselves...
maybe we do it unknowingly
being a dentist i deal with aesthetics daily....
eg 1. just yesterday a patient came to clinic....she had habit of chewing tobacco n had brown stains all over the teeth...now normally she would not have thought that for her health of her gums n teeth she should firstly stop chewing tobacco or at least get scaling (cleaning) of teeth done every 6 months....but she came at nth hour when she had to go for a wedding n jus wanted outer (buccal) side of front 6 teeth cleaned..she said to get rest of her teeth cleaned she wud come later....lets c
a similar case came few months back too where the groom had come for scaling 3 days prior to wedding...he is yet to come for cleaning rest of teeth....
2.today only...one uncle came...he has only upper front 4 teeth..they r also shaky..n now he wants artificial denture for jus front teeth coz he has to attend a wedding..he is not bothered how he will chew....he has no posterior teeth....n even his hew lower teeth which r there r all shaky...still he is not bothered to do the entire treatment which involves removing all teeth n making a denture..that wud improve overall function of chewing n eating....
countless patients get their front teeth treated be it root canal or crown or filling or denture in one shot...we hardly have to convince them...but if it is poor molars they wait till it reaches the stage of removal....feel so helpless then...
young girls come for orthodontic treatment at age of 20 or 23 in short marriageable age in their caste.....n when v suggest the treatment for 8 or 9 yr old girls when it is actually more effective better results seen...parents say treatment is too long or expensive
everyone says beauty is not important...your character is..your heart n your soul is...but sadly no body wants to check out the rest of them if the face is not good enough...
if it were not true why do stories like ugly duckling exist...why didnt anybody not treat poor little duck well until it blossomed into a swan...
same true for money too...people say its not important...it causes misery...true if not handled properly it does...but it is important....n not always it causes misery....
someone told me....PEOPLE WITH MONEY ARE UNHAPPY AND SO ARE PEOPLE WITHOUT IT...BUT ITS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE RICH N UNHAPPY RATHER THAN BEING UNHAPPY WITHOUT IT.....
how true this is.....
so let us accept that both these r important...know to value it....after all it takes hard work...beauty maybe god given but maintaining it is in your hands only.....so no need to be ashamed to admit its worth....
we think people will call us money minded or look conscious....but its not true...they jus call u that coz they r not able to achieve it n so r simply jealous....nothing else...

Tuesday, September 11, 2007

ram gopal varma ki aag.....

well m so glad it bombed....along with victoria 203....recent two movies which were remade n flopped big time...
hopefully it will put off film makers from remaking old movies....
didnt see it...trailers n posters were enough to make u feel disgusted....
i guess DON too didnt do too well....so out of so many movies which were remade only devdas n parineeta did well....n that too coz they were presented well....n film makers didnt toy with the soul of the movie....
why cant they make more movie from books..n give the credit where deserved n make a good movie....
out of so many movies seen recently i thought only chak de proved to be a great entertainer n everything was going for the movie..
even heyy baby..well i wud anyday prefer to watch three men and a baby..
the love story angle was so pathetic.....n the joke was funny only when it was repeated twice not 5 times...by the 5th time the joke lost its humor....
hopefully our film makers get inspired by something more than a past hit movie....
good luck folks..
n RGV better luck next time...

Monday, September 3, 2007

malaysia

finally my tomorrow has arrived.......

so from singapore v went to malaysia...in malaysia first v went to genting highlands...it is a mini las vegas...v went there by skyway...one of the longest roperails in the world...it was pretty cold out there as genting is situated on top of a mountain hence the name highlands...

well at genting there r 4 or 5 hotels...each connected by lifts n monorails n escalator...n like las vegas there r play areas for kids....where u play games n win teddy bears n stuff...also there is a casino there...(banned for malaysian muslims though)...the hotel where v stayed had an attached theme park...which was a again a mini version of our good old essel world...

after having quite a good time in genting for 1 n half day...v proceeded to kuala lumpur city of gardens...beautiful landscaping done all over the city...n colourful lights hanging on every tree..beautiful

there we saw patronus twin tower (4th tallest tower in world as of now....n the ONLY twin tower)...also saw kuala lumpur tower....its a telecommmunication tower...it seems taller than patronus twin tower coz its built over a small hill...the hill is called something annanas..

there is an interesting story abt it..some rich guy built his home on that hill..n to prevent thieves from entering he grew pine apple plantation around it...so the hill is called ananas (remember even in marathi ananas means pine apple)..thats why i remembered the malay version of the name too...hehe

then we visited chocolate factory outlet.....where v sampled delicious chocolates n of course bought some too.....

we also saw the kings palace.....quite a young couple...king is in his forties n queen in thirties...

from there we went to out hotel...n to our surprise our room was on 19th floor n from rifht outside the window we cud see patronus twin tower...n what a sight they were..glitttering as jewels...the whole building is made up of steel n glass on the outside...

n jus for information sake this is where shooting of movie Don has taken place..where shahrukh n arjun rampal fight...

next day we had to leave early in morning as the airport is quite situated outside the city...n we had an early flight to catch....

next attraction.....THAILAND...will write soon...

Monday, August 27, 2007

RAKSHA BANDHAN.....


long time since i have written....my tomorrow has not yet come with respect to writing about the trip...soon it shall come...
today i m gonna write about a festival very close to my heart
tomorrrow is raksha bandhan...festival of brother n sister...festival celebrating the sanctity of this relationship....where a brother takes a vow to keep his sister happy...protect her..take care of her....and sister prays for his long life n happiness as well
history of this festival goes back when rani padmavati's(i hope its correct name) kingdom was invaded....and i guess her husband had either died or was fighting other invaders at other front or something.....and she didnt know what to do where to ask for help....in such a situation she sent a silken thread to emperor humayun saying she by sending this thread she had made him her brother and it was he should help her in times of trouble.....he was touched by her gesture...n sure enough reached there with his army n defeated the enemy n protected his sisters kingdom....
this is the way this festival started where a sister ties rakhi to her brother n feeds him sweets n prays for her brothers long life and brother gives her some gift...best part ;)
its a very sweet festival....
miss all my brothers who r away n have not tied rakhi to u for so many years....
miss u raja shubu saashrik saahill...
love u all a lot...n hope u have all got mine n mithila's rakhi by post....

Wednesday, August 15, 2007

trip....

well its been two weeks since i have been back...n i m sorry i have not written till now....its jus i guess due to not good internet connectivity and also my laziness....now again will write like a job...

well 1st v went to singapore........our 1st day of trip was a bit rough...delayed flights had to spend a lot of time at the air port.....got tired....but its part of the vacationing experience i guess....

well we arrived a changi airport singapore at around 8 am got fresh at the airport to spend the day sight seeing..but then v got lucky...our tour guide told us we wud be checking in 1st..having breakfast n lunch....n then leaving for sight seeing around 2 pm..

so v relaxed..ate a hearty breakfast of idli n dosa n medu vada....(it was nice to see so many indians there....and our hotel was in little india area...so it was good to see posters of indian actors n sports men.......

1st day was spent looking around at santosa island........there v saw many shows like images of singapore...4D but i thought it was like 3D only......n songs of sea....beautiful LASER show....and of course the marine park....

back to hotel at night......we were drop dead tired......jus ate dinner n conked off...

next day was singapore city tour.....went around the city..saw fountain of wealth...the only fountain in the world where water goes inward n not upward...also worlds largest fountain....had ride in singapore river....saw the merlion of course........saw floating stadium....visited gems factory.....saw orchid garden.......really gods marvel....so many beautiful colors....lovely flowers...

and spent rest of the day shopping!!!!!!!!

day 2 malaysia tomo....

Friday, July 20, 2007

going out for vacation...

hey people...all of us are going to singapore malayasia thailand for a vacation for 8 days......so no blogging for a week....wud write abt trip when i m back...will click a lot of pics...n post then......hopefully i get internet over there...i need to check mails yaar..n my scraps on orkut of course.......still looking forward to the vacation........bye tc...

happy anniversary mom dad......happy birthday anu......

Thursday, July 19, 2007

my apologies....

i owe an apology to ushma for not mentioning her in the anniversary post.....sorry dear guess i jus bugged at aakash n dhaval....n was too excited abt anu's engagement...that in most of my post i wrote abt it....coz milan jiju is too cute...n sweet...i know u agree...so most of my space unknowingly was dedicated to them....but i really appreciate that u didnt act like a spoil sport n danced with us all evening....sorry sweety....
also to note among fadias it was rupal bhai n savi bhabhi who danced very cutely.....n hemu kaka n raksha kaki too danced energetically for some time....all kakis did shake a leg to garba songs....also seju bhabhi danced with palak....
i m very sorry not to have mentioned all of them.......they did add their special touch to the evening.....and the evening would not have been the same without them......
love u all....we really make a rocking family......

Thursday, July 12, 2007

thank u people...

i jus wanna thank all my family n friends who have been taking time out n reading my blog n giving me their views on my views n also on my writing....it really means a lot to me that u guys do enjoy reading wat i write...it encourages me to put my thoughts into words....initially i was a bit apprehensive abt writing my thoughts...but u people have put my mind at ease..appreciation that i got for my writing n thoughts has given me a boost.....bcoz of the positive feedback now m writing 3 blogs....thank u...n happy reading...hope i continue to tickle ur mind enough to make u come back to read what new i have written..

finally...

today got my degree certificate...today was my final official visit to my college...the day for which i had worked so hard for 5 long years had finally arrived....but the feelings were bittersweet....felt nostalgic when i walked thru the corridors...greeting teachers n a few friends...most of them will be gone after 2 months as they complete their internship in september......after that there will hardly anyone in coll known to me..barring of course those students who r doing PG in our college...soon the college which was my home away from home for 4 n 1/2 years wud be an alien turf for me...with fewer known people being there...the time i spent in pimpri will always be one of the best years of my life..which i will cherish...of course there were ups n downs...there were fights but there also was making up...fun..dance..fear..love...rejection..laughter..tears...anger...guilt...name it n we all been thru it.....doing what pleases...eating what pleases....watching movies...studing in candle light or emergency light during exams if current went out...searching patients for exams...harassing our neighbour (not purposely)..irritating our landlady...have seen the best n worst of life here (of course without serious impact on life as a whole)..still learnt a lot besides dentistry in these years...want to say i love u people to my room mates..chitra rehana apoorva mohini pranali shikha...who have stood by me thru most of my crises.....love u all despite all the differences of opinion v might have had...n even though i might not have been able to express it in person i m saying here....also i m sorry if unknowingly have hurt any of u....also people who shd be mentioned in this post are my batchmates pallavi aditya varun harshada swati..spent better part of the day for 3 yrs with them...miss u guys..hope v do stay in touch n good luck folks for all the future endevours...n ofcourse my other classmates adarsh (my sweet bro who stands up for me when vivek teases me even today) ankush nitin arshad arvind....life wud not have been same without u guys....n last but not the least my dear friend vivekanand...had it not been for his selfless support n guidance i dont know how i wud have made it here...love u all people..n always know i will always be there for u...n u all have made a difference to my life...thank u for being what u are..thinking of these days surely will make my heart light when i miss u all...n bring a smile to my face even in the most trying situations...enough of senti stuff i guess i can go on n on..abt how i feel..maybe will write one more post on college days n will elaborate on those feelings etc etc..till then ciao

Tuesday, July 10, 2007

my mr right pl read this....


a friend sent me this pic...these words exactly tell whats on my mind....so my mr right..who ever u r .....where ever u r......hope u read this n i hope u r like this ....n i wish i find u soon ;)

my weekend

a gr8 weekend...something i m always gonna remember...shubu arrived a day early on friday night itself....bipinmasa came on sat n so did mitu.. anu's engagement ceremony was on sunday in morning....well she looked splendid n so did milan jij...the atmosphere was charged..anu was smiling throughout the whole function n so was jiju...she was just so happy...hugged me so tightly after the rings were exchanged...her excitement was palpable.....she spread her infectious laughter to all of us...jus seeing her v wud too start smiling......it was fun seeing her when they were clicking pictures...the photographers telling her how to pose,telling jij n her to stand closer,tilt head etc etc...we all cousins had a ball...
but the center of attraction was of course rushika...she is such a friendly n sweet girl....she came to us even though we were seeing her after a yr....was great..

in the evening was mom dads anniversary party....well as usual u jus need to bring me mithu anu n didi together n floor is on fire....enjoyed dancing after a long long time...this time it was even more special coz shubu too was there...n how can i forget my darling new jij...he too danced thru the entire function...well he had to shake a leg or two....but really after anu had told us u r shy n all v thought u might hesitate or v wud require to pressurize u more...but u readily came...v love u jij...made us feel so good....really..u were jus gr8...n his face had a shine wen the song "sehra baandh ke me to aaya re " from salaam e ishq was played.....he n anu were in their own beautiful world then......loved when anu danced to "hum ko to hai intezaar koi aaye leke pyaar"...she was in her 7 th heaven then...n the look on jij's face cant be described wen he saw her dancing jus for him....it was too sweet when he came n hugged her...i know i know i m jus talking abt anu n jij but the day belonged to them....n i was jus watching two of them...seeing their expressions n the way love n happiness showed on both their faces.....m so happy for my darling sister to have found such a gr8 guy.......

another attaraction was rushika...she was jus lovely...n loved it the way she played with aayush n navya palak n vruti....pulled aayush's hair n he was so swt didnt mind it at all..seju bhabhi said he was used to palak pulling his hair... her interaction with kids n how they came to kiss her hug her n the fact that aayush wanted to hold her n rushika was all set to go...di n bhabhi had to actually restrain both of them...lovely seeing all these kids together..

but the evening wud have been so much more fun if v had our rest of family too...missed u all people in USA...mirafoi manojfua tanvi raja bamasi ba palakdidi kettymasi motamama sumanmami sachika saashrik sonumama beamami sahill sujalben vikjiju....also missed kapiljiju tarunmasa noella ritabhabhi aadit n aneet...v were so glad to have bipinmasa amongst us....

Thursday, July 5, 2007

dhoom Vs dhoom 2



this is one of the first of my post of my new movie comparison series.....lemme tell u guys something...i dont sit n dwell on it..this come to me spontaneously coz of my love for movies...as i see a movie my mind automatically starts comparing if its s sequel or its based on a book or if its a remake...n if its none of the above..my mind starts working abt whats good in this movie (if its a nice movie)...or what sets it apart from the rest....n if its a bad movie..whats bad abt it...or wat can be done so that it cud be a better movie....this comes to me naturally.....n as it keeps on going round n round my head i have decided to pen in down (in this case type it down)


Dhoom Vs Dhoom 2

both these movies made good money...dhoom 2 more than dhoom....but as far as i m concerned...i believe dhoom was a much better movie than its sequel...

my reasons :dhoom.... it was a new concept...it was first of its kind....it practically had no stars...it made the actors stars..dhoom was abhisheks n john's first hit movie....good story good direction...nice action sequence..good songs...good comedy..loved uday chopra in the movie...comedy between rimi n uday too is nice....esha too looked nice...bike sequences were well shot...great dialogues....loved the conversations between john n abhishek...both on phone n in casino in end....abhishek actually does some policemangiri when he gets hold of bike...his role is not wasted in this movie...rimi sen too is good...i mean her role too is well done...all in all a well made movie

well dhoom 2 :GREAT star cast...HRITHIK ASH BIPASHA ABHISHEK UDAY CHOPRA....i did think wud any of these people been associated with dhoom 2 had the first movie not been a smashing hit

at the end of movie i wondered wat exactly was bipasha doing in the movie...we the movie wud have been same without her too..other than showing off her great body..she had no role....

hrithik did steal the show...with his brilliant dancing n acting...but u cant hang a guy for being so good than even the good appear mediocre...n another question popped up my head now...was there a show to steal
well there was nothing great in story...n it wasnt even as if it was one of the best perfomances by the rest of the cast...well they all have movies where they have acted wonderfully...i dont think dhoom 2 is gonna feature in hall of fame of any of the cast except HRITHIK....

ASH didnt get into the skin of the role she was enacting....my guess is she was supposed to get the LARA CROFT kind of a look...well she did try..her body language her running style etc did get close to it....but she didnt get thru it in her dialogue delivery....it was a different style..but she didnt sound the cool n rough n tough image she was trying to get...

abhishek....well m not comparing his dancing abilities or his physique with hrithik coz they jus cant be compared...but his role cud have been better as it was in dhoom 1....they cud have done something i m sure to make jai dixit appear formidable as against aryan...here there was no compitition...everyone knew jai was jus no match for MR A...

uday too sadly didnt carry his character well forward...

songs..pathetic..pl cant even listen to my name is ali and touch me dont touch me soniya.....

i dont know whom to fault....director or the actor....i asked myself is he the same guy who made dhoom...

action sequences are jus put for the heck of it....thanks to computers..most of the movie i guess is done on computer only....for no reason at all things r exploding...there r chases going on...well there should have been some continuity in action sequence...1 second u show hrithik going down the drain..n in next scene he comes out of fire hydrant ? were the drain n hydrant inter connected mr director...

on the plus side the title track n diljale rocked..but m afraid thats just thanks to hrithik..a sight for sore eyes in this movie


when u make dhoom 3 hope u make the movie comparable to your first if not better than that Mr Gadhvi

Wednesday, July 4, 2007

smiles...






this is one of the best part of our profession...smile designing..n i dont mean only monetarily...a few days back a young boy came to us..he had had a bike accident...n his 3 front teeth had broken....one had to be removed...he is in hotel industry..can u imagine what it must be like for a 20 yr old boy to lose his 3 front teeth....we managed to save 2 teeth n thanks to newer dental procedures soon he is gonna have new teeth..exactly like his natural teeth..gr8 na...n this is i guess a tenth case in 6 months...so the percentage of people having some problem with their front teeth n losing their smile is quite high...also another thing i like is...these patients who have broken their front teeth or the front teeth have got decayed...they avoid smiling in front of others for obvious reasons till their treatment is over n they have all good natural looking teeth...but when they come to us...they laugh without any inhibition...coz v have seen them in such a state..they r not conscious in front of us...one of my female patients told me so too...that u know i have not laughed so freely in so many days...felt good that v r helping someone in one of the important aspects of life..n people can be their natural self in front of us...

feels good that i m in a profession where i can bring back someones lost smile..
best (ideal) smile according to me n most dentists in india...my dear mads...

brownie..


made this chocolate n peanut butter brownie last week using 28 cooks receipe ....n it was yummy....thank u 28 cooks....n thanks tanvi too as i got to know the site because of her...

Monday, July 2, 2007

love stories...

i love love stories...n when i read saloni's story i loved it too...so today m gonna write abt some love stories i know...they r of my family n friends...jus taking fictitious names jus in case they dont like being written on blog

1. raj n puja : raj saw puja on train....felt something for her (maybe)...he didnt know anything except her name puja as he had heard her family calling her that...well it was a long distance journey....so he kept looking at her for some 18 hours..train got delayed for a few hours...puja saw this guy looking at her with interest but didnt do anything abt it....they both reached their destination n separated...apparently raj cud not get her out of his head...so he mailed all pujas from internet search directory...n asked if she was is a given train at a given date which had got delayed for this many hours pl reply...he wanted to be friends...sure enough she too got it...she replied they became friends....some months later he proposed...they got married..n today they have a son who is a few months old.......sweet na...


2.rahul n susan : they were in college together...she was a yr older than him but they were in same class....they were in same group...became good friends...she didnt do well in studies...kept on flunking...he went ahead...but he kept on making her study....he taught her as well studied for himself....she was discouraged in between left studies...but he got her back to coll...got her thru coll....kept her morale up....in between she was discovered diabetic still stuck with her....dealt with family pressure coz of difference in religion..finally her parents agreed...his did not....he jus told them...he was getting married on this day n date whether they liked it or no...then they agreed....finally they got married....they r married since 2 years now....(hope i find a guy who feels for me this strongly n who sees me thru my life)

3.rohit n tina : both met at a camp....rohit fell for tina...became friends with her...kept in touch after camp..one day tina's mom was like "hello why do u call my daughter so much"...he simply said coz i wanna marry her....he told her mom before telling her can u believe it..tina was like i like u as a friend but i m not sure if i wanna marry u..well he kept his patience....got to know each other better...both families got to know each other better...n they both got married....n they r proud parents of a daughter...

4.ram n anjali : met at job...became good friends....she was engaged...still ram fell in love wit her...didnt know wat to do...didnt tell her...but as v all know love cant be hidden...n she too started liking him but didnt say anything...neither did ram.. things seemed impossible for them...wedding date was set after 6 months....cards were being printed...both didnt know wat to do...she was 4 yrs older than him...well her fiance saw wat they felt for each other wen they were all together at office picnic...n voiced the unspoken feelings...this broke the silence between them...she decided she cud not get married to her fiance...told her parents...bore all the possible things u can think of at home......finally her parents agrees....today they r engaged to be married later this year......


well if there is anything different in these stories i apologise to the concerned people.....i have written the story as i know...

Saturday, June 30, 2007

HAPPY DOCTORS DAY

who gives his knowledge for ur ignorance
his health for ur disease
D best of his time for the worst of yours
his patience for ur impatience
his utmost care for your carelessness
his smiles for your tears
his comfort 4 ur comfort
his sleep for ur sleep
his life 4 ur life
who else
but a doctor for his patient--noble indeed

HAPPY DOCTORS DAY...TO ALL THE DOCTORS OUT THERE...

Friday, June 29, 2007

Pain...

being a dentist i have to deal with this PAIN daily....the fear...n everything...people come n say jus rid me of this pain..or will it pain during the procedure etc etc...

why r v all so afraid of this pain.....it is body reaction to alarm us something is going wrong somewhere...its a protective mechanism...cant v jus know it n live wit it...ok so what if it pains..i will deal with it.....why dont v think like this... why do v want to escape pain...

if u can feel the pain its good...it means u know something is amiss that needs to be corrected...and it also means whatever needs to corrected is still correctable....

love the sentence in kailash khers song allah ke bande : dard ko saath lele dard bhi tere kaam aayega

periodontitis i feel is dreadful....u dont feel pain...so u dont know something is wrong n more often then not...most patients who come to us with it have to get their tooth extracted as the disease has progressed so much...there is so much bone lost that the tooth loses its support

same with diabetes......ur nerves get damaged...u dont feel pain...u might have a huge ulcer in ur foot without knowing about it.....people die coz they have silent heart attacks...n they dont realize that their heart is having an ATTACK

leprosy..another disease that is painless...the bacteria damage nerves..so even though your limbs r rotting dont feel the pain...


my profession thrives on pain...in a way it good n its bad...coz people come to us only when they have pain..n pain means either tooth can be saved wit root canal or u have to extract it (as the tooth is infected)...n root canal n a crown over it means monetary loss.....its a bit expensive procedure...n most people over here r not too happy abt it...but the good part is root canal can at least save the tooth..

sometimes the tooth doesnt pain at all but breaks down into smaller pieces n falls out...if thats the case then v have no choice but to extract the tooth..n that means LOSS OF TOOTH.....so here again absence of pain is harmful

if people came to us before they have pain...the decay can be removed n filling can be done...this is definately less expensive...but again who goes to a dentist without PAIN


lets learn to deal with pain..n i mean not only physical but emotional too...any relation that has the power to make u feel hurt can survive..can be held tight...can be revived...the day u dont feel the pain....when u stop feeling in a relation means u indifferent to it..it does not matter to u then...its a lost cause then...

m not saying live in pain....or its great to be in pain etc etc...jus lets not run away from it......lets not be afraid of it

dead people dont feel any pain....if u feel it..U R ALIVE

Thursday, June 28, 2007

trust....

m writing after a long long time...the reason no 1 being i was lazy..secondly i didnt have my thoughts organised..n thirdly being the internet was jus not working....

the title trust is regarding the fact that i always find treating a child patient more satisfying than treating an adult patient...the reason being that u cant work with a child unless he/she trusts u...u may have to initially scold him sometimes (i use that as a last option) but that fear is only temporary the moment he feels u gonna do something that might hurt him he makes stuff difficult for u...so his fear has to be converted to trust before u can proceed....n once he knows that u not gonna hurt he will let u do everything required.....usually talking straight to the point in gentle sweet tone helps

u have to be truthful to him...u cannot say an injection is not gonna hurt....u say it will hurt a bit..like a mosquitto bite or a pinch...if the child is male u say its gonna hurt less as compared to when he falls on ground playing cricket or football....he will let u inject without a problem...

tackling them is tough but once u get them to trust u they will play in ur hands

unlike adults..who do trust u thats y they r in ur clinic..but here n there they doubt u...is it necessary cant we do without it etc etc...

but wit kids its diff..they will ask u a 100 questions..now what r u gonna do the with this
the most frequent but they dont question u...if they have questions regarding ur abilities they jus wont let u work ;)

they say so on ur face too...one kid told me on my face that he wanted sir to do the work....n same thing other told sir he wanted didi to do the job for him...well i was pleased..my patient was loyal to me....i had to handover my work to my sir n went abt doing the childs job....but it was a hell of a satisfaction to experience this trust first hand...

Tuesday, June 12, 2007

thats the way it is....

this is in connection with my two posts MY NEXT FEW DAYS n HOW DID IT GO....
was gonna write this before only...but due to obvious reasons cud not do it...

well all i wanna say is...thats the way life is...v plan few things...expect them to happen...try hard for things to happen the way we want...n what happens is something else only...ya there r few pleasant surprises...but along wit them r not so pleasant happenings...

something as short as a weekend has made me realise this....ya its happened before too but i guess i was too busy to notice it....but these days as i m relatively free i view everything that happens as a third person...try n see some logic in it..or see if there is something doable about it or no...

n i have realised that other than moving ahead with the flow..there is not much v can do about it....as i read JOHN LENNON quote : LIFE IS SOMETHING THAT HAPPENS WHEN V R BUSY PLANNING...

v have to be aware of it that this doesnt happen with us......its better to take things in stride n move ahead than asking why what how...n ruminating over it...

it doesnt mean v stop working towards our goals n our wishes n our dreams...but jus be ok if things dont happen our way..others dont see things the way v do...jus keep doing it...jus keep working...u never know...some surprise may prop up behind some bend v cant see.....

N in the end..generally alls well....nothing is so bad or such disaster as v make it out to be at that point.....

Monday, June 11, 2007

my weekend

today is a very important day....internet is working finally...hopefully it continues to do so...even during the monsoons....hopefully the current also stays n there r no problems with trains.....lets hope 4 the best.....

saw OCEANS 13 yesterday wit ushma.....had a good time with her..went shopping wit her at infinity mall....remembered the day spent there with tanvi....only this time v did more of window shopping..movie was nice....had caramel popcorn too....i go more for the pop corn than the movie i think...one time watch...there shud have been a female character too i think...else the pace of movie was fine...except they showed some wierd machine that caused earth quakes n some things i couldnt understand.....else the concept n revenge part was nice....

also visited my doc...he did my eye check up n said all was well..have a 6 by 5 vision he said..cud read even beyond it.....so i guess i can c more than normal now :)
he has also given permission to do all regular activities like driving watch tv internet n reading....so m happy now

all in all a nice weekend

Sunday, June 10, 2007

after a long long time

i havent written since some time....reason being lack of time...my sir is out of station so i have to manage the clinic morning n evening....also as my LASIK surgery was done i was advised minimum computer using...and last but not the least our internet connection is not working since a week....yesterday only the enggineer called up n said he wud come tomo n restore after dad told him v didnt wanna renew the account....n he citied rains as the reason...i told him, the entire monsoon is still left.....he jus apologised..n thats it...after all v r at their mercy....all connectiond r like this only.......jus bugged off with them but cant do anything...lets c what happens..now have started keepin a diary to write the thoughts n then will pen them when net is working....now m at ushma's home so i thought of writing....from tuesday sir will be back so again will have time as then will have to go only in morning.....looking forward to writing a lot more....

Thursday, May 31, 2007

thank you glasses

well tomo is the big day...it will be good bye to my glasses forever....tomo is my lasik surgery....i jus wanna thank them....they have been with me since 4th std.....have been with me thru all my good n bad times...all my exams my 10th n 12th boards...all four university exams....wudnt have been a dentist if they werent around.....wudnt be able to read books or watch movies..the two things i love doing the most....wudnt be able to see at all...the thank u list is endless...jus saying good bye..

Tuesday, May 29, 2007

N how did it go...

well to begin with really nice....mithu came home...n it was gr8..only problem being that she is an early riser n didnt like that i wud sleep till 8 am...but thats routine...she almost everytime she is here its the same....jus this time she had a new line....everytime i didnt do what she wanted she wud say
mane ghare bolavo chho anne pachi mari vaat pan nahi manta
(u call me home n then dont do wat i say)
n then i wud of course do wat she wanted....or give her the dress she wanted to wear etc etc
good part ends here....v didnt go for movie coz no one was interested....by the way tomo i go for it with my school friends.....
there was such a bad traffic jam on the way to nashik...that 3 hour journey tool 7 hours...so v were on road without AC in this hot weather getting roasted in the car....
by the time v reached v were so tired still had lunch then i went off to sleep again without fan or AC coz current wasnt there bcoz of load shedding......so u can imagine how tired i was.....got up after an hour then went to attend lecture...my poor mom got bored in room while i slept....dad n mithu were in conference room....
now comes the good part...scientific session was good...it was on diabetes...n thankfully thats a topic i know well so could understand what they were talking...speakers were good....
then was the entertainment...they had invited VIP (vishal pawar)....a winner comedian from the GREAT INDIAN LAUGHTER CHALLENGE.....n he was good...i mean for the 1st time i cud actually sit n enjoy a performance for 2 hours....all of us had a gr8 time....
on our return journey too v faced some traffic but it wasnt much....reached in time for gol dhana......met milan jiju n his family......loved them all...very nice people...all in all a good end to a not so good weekend....

Wednesday, May 23, 2007

my few next days..

m so excited..mithila is coming home..she is gonna be there till sunday..v r going for a 2 day picic at manas resort (actually dad has a conference there..its still a picnic for both of us)...i wont have to decide menu for dinner..thank god...jus cant come up with something to eat daily...wen mom pops the question aaje rate su banavu...n i m like blank.....so for next few days theres no problem...on friday is ba's birthday..plannin to go for CHEENI KUM..its a light hearted comedy n i think it gonna be a nice movie...loved the theme..64yr old man falls for 34 yr old woman n then has to patao 58 yr old sasur....sounds good na...i think so too..n actors r gr8 too..its amitabh tabu n paresh rawal....looking forward to it too...n of course the week finishes off in style as v have anu's god dhana function...looking forward to meet milan jiju....m so happy n excited for anu......so seems like next few days r gonna be fun......cant jus wait..

Saturday, May 19, 2007

kya karu ye internet ka....

daily internet doesnt work in evening....its so frustrating....coz thats the time i have all to myself...n i was looking forward to using it to write n daily thats the time there is no internet service......today being sunday m at home this time n can write..but dont have much time as i have to go out with my friends for METRO...at least thats what the plan is.....hopefully v get tickets....will write more soon abt things crowding my mind.....guess will have to sit in afternoons now......i sleep then but will have to cut down on that i guess....

N the final result:


looks tempting dont u think...

Thursday, May 17, 2007

Yesterday and today...

yesterday i thought everything was going wrong with me....my neck got sprained..my internet connection wasnt working....nothing good on tv....n my movie plan got cancelled...but that was until today..even today the movie is cancelled (kedar m gonna give u one punch for postponing n finally cancelling..will give one on himali's behalf too)...there is nothing good on tv...but neck is better today (took few analgesics n rubbed anaflam...n it thankfully worked)...my internet connection is great (uptil now that is..cant guarantee how long it will work)...my patient (the 7yr old kid) praised me...thats what her mom said that she said my hand was good that she didnt feel pain when i was working...that did a lot good for my mood...so all in all...the day till now was definately better than yesterday

Tuesday, May 15, 2007

spiderman 3


what i liked :
1 the way tobey maguire acted as the bad spiderman
2 the moral : what he says in the end u always can choose between right n wrong...n its in ur hand to choose the right...
3 the special effects

what i didnt like:
very routine predictable run of the mill story n suspense....

my day...

just thought wud write something abt my daily routine...jus writing it this one time coz its pretty much the same daily...most of the blogs i read describe what they did or what they gonna do....so i thought for once i can write it....i went to clinic today morning as usual....did routine work..silver fillings, extractions, scaling ,root canals etc etc...yest i did root canal of a small girl that was interesting....as i did the it entirely by myself...n was impressed with myself abt the way i handled the child..she was jus 7 yr old....n was quite uncooperative...but i handled her well...other than that went for walk with himali n kedar yest...attended study class at night...today have no plans for evening as yet...will go for a movie tomo will himali n kedar...then will post my review abt LIFE IN METRO....so u see this is what i do mostly daily....not an exactly hip hop life...or nothing new happening either.......oh ya n i have 1 more news...as i was busy writing my wedding blog didnt know my sis anu had decided upon a life partner.....got to know jus yest abt it...m so happy for u...these wedding posts i dedicate them to u...wishing u all the happiness....

Monday, May 14, 2007

ta ra rum pum...


this is an ok ok movie...not that gr8 at all....not whats expected from saif n rani...still there r few points which r shown very beautifully in this movie....i liked the way they show the transition the family takes when they go bankrupt...there is no grumbling or fighting or name calling or pointing fingers at each other...i mean they go bankrupt n it is saif's fault largely...but rani takes it in stride....she has seen happy times with him n is perfectly fine to go along in bad time...she doesnt even get angry with her husband for a second coz of whom they r in such position....she doesnt show reluctance to work...she is willing to give him a second chance....encourages him when he is low....wonderful characterisation of rani...saif's character not too bad either...loves rani unconditionally.. helpful..he too peps her up...he feels bad abt her abt her facing all the difficulties but he is not in a position to do anything much...he is pretty helpless abt their dire state....n their love is shown to be jus the same...thats so nice...the only time she gets bugged is when he lies abt his daughters health....children acted well like all the child actors do...all in all i liked the spirit of the movie....of course v gotta overlook obvious flaws
1.didnt he have finance managin company...he is such a famous driver...when he has made so much money...how the hell can he go bankrupt....
2.songs r really bad...wish they were a bit peppy...n there r too many songs...n v knew he is gonna win the crucial race in the end..with his cabbie crew :)
had this been a two hr movie with few less songs..it wud have been gr8

anyways a good concept....very nice moral...n a feel good movie...one time watch

Sunday, May 13, 2007

weddings continued....


be it any caste any community..they all have different customs different traditions....but for the guy n the gal in the end it doesnt matter...what matters is they have each other...the vows..they r so sacred....to live upto it is something...n to have someone take these vows for u....its so touching...to mean so much to someone that he feels like taking these vows for u....n it must be such a gr8 feeling to feel this special thing that u want to take these vows for him...to know u r someones world n vice versa is so humbling...u feel such gratitude for the almighty for giving u this person in ur life..and our whole family joins us in this celebration...feels so good that v r able to give so much joy to our parents....n spread the smile around....its such a wonderful occasion..

weddings continued....


the bride in all the finery....getting ready for a new life in a new place in a new family....the groom looking forward to taking his bride home...be it love marriage or arranged....the excitement the nervousness is just the same...how long u know a person doesnt matter....what matters is this is the person u gonna spend rest of ur life with....some marriages happen easily..some after a lot of struggle...but everything seems worthwhile on this day....the fact that u with the person u wanted to be makes everything seem alright....the wait ends on this day..

weddings....


it is such a wonderful occasion...the joy is so unique...it can be seen so clearly in all pictures....as they take vows for better or for worse...to stand by each other...their eyes hold such a promise of their future together...

Friday, May 11, 2007

love is...

love is...when u wanna be with someone jus coz u wanna take care of him coz u know u can take best care of him as u know u love him most
love is...when u wanna be with someone jus to make that person smile....
love is...when ur source of happiness is in the smile of that someone...jus seeing that person smile makes u smile
love is....u cant eat what he likes without sharing with that person coz u know how much he loves it....
love is....u start keeping a track of things he needs n u know he always forgets to get it.....
love is...u want to be with someone just so that u make so many memories with him that the memories r there even if he isnt....
love is....u wanna spend 24 hours with him just once so that u get prepared to face a lifetime without him......coz in those 24 hours u live a lifetime with him.....u can cook for him...u can watch a movie with him late into the night.....u can have a dance with him....u can listen jus once when he sings only for u.....
love is....wanting to be there for him so that u can shield him from all the tears...encourage him when he is low....show confidence in him....allay all the fears....jus be there for him firm n strong.... as u know only u can be for him.....
love is....being able to smile when anything comes in ur life that reminds u of him....
love is....being glad to get an opportunity to know him so well that u fell in love with him...
love is....being happy u got a chance to spend time with him to make all those wonderful memories.......
love is...just wishing all these wud happen but knowing deep in ur heart its not gonna happen..
love is...being happy jus coz u r in love...

Thursday, May 10, 2007

lack of faith..

it upsets me endless that most of patients have so less faith in doctors....when they come to me...most of the time they dont complain as i have this problem or that toothache..but they say i had got this done from some doc n the tooth is paining...or the tooth u worked on last time is worse now...n when i check its always some other problem n not anything wrong done by me or any other doc.....i have to keep my temper in check then....n inform the pt wat the prob is.....arre u dont take care of ur body ur health ur teeth n when something goes wrong they blame the last doc who had treated them...arre then treat urself na if u so good at that...here v spend 5 or more yrs studing working hard earning a degree not to be doubted by the fools who r much less intelligent than us n think too gr8 of themselves.....u come to us mostly when the disease has progressed so much that v can hardly do anything....n then u doubt our treatment.....funnier still is u try n tell us the treatment.....cant this be done or that...arre if cud be done wudnt v have suggested it to u...even funnier still is her dad thinks it shd be done like this...well i tell those pts let her dad only treat her.....of course i cant say that on face so i end up saying what i heard my senior say once....i dont do treatment acc to her dads wishes not even acc to my wishes but i do it acc to what our books say.......so people next time u visit a doc pl dont question him/her...if u dont have faith in that person go to another doc..or if u have more money ask a second opinion from another doc...n then decide what u wanna do...but dont give suggestions....v r here to help u out of ur misery....not cause it...there was a pt once who asked me if the procedure i was doing wud harm him....i said of course not...n as a after thought added wud i be doing it if it wud harm u...n he coolly told me "U JUS BOTHERED ABT TEETH....TOMO U WILL TELL ME I JUS RESTORE TEETH SO Y SHD I CARE ABT REST OF UR BODY"..needless to say it infuriated the hell out of me.....i told him that even though v r dentists v do learn abt all body systems r v r very much concerned with entire well being of a person n not jus with teeth...i told him v had a course spanning 5 yrs n v learn a lot more besides 32 teeth....he was surprised to have this bit of information...this i m telling u all as i want u people also to know abt it n not question the intentions of ur dentist.....guess its a long lecture...but it was within me since quite some time....n if this kindles faith even in a few of u abt ur doctors or dentist m glad i wrote this.....

Wednesday, May 9, 2007

my 1st attempt at writing...

this is the 1st time i m sitting n writing something seriously.....m a bit scared....coz when i start writing i dont know what all is gonna come out..there is so much within me waiting to be expressed n its like i wud be exposing my soul to one n all...to those who know me n those who dont...m not very bothered abt those who dont know me...but those who do...my family n friends...coz many things which will be written in coming days my innermost feelings i havent told to any1 except my darling bro shubu...n my friend sudeep...so m afraid people may judge me.....pl dont do that...or else those who know me dont read my blogs....this is the sole reason why its taken me so many days contemplating n thinking whether i shd write or no...but today m taking this plunge...as my brother shubu says its a good release to pen down our thoughts.....so shubu thanks for ur advice m taking this one.....this is just an introduction to my thoughts....so dont get confused...most of the things i do its like this only....think think n then act...contemplate abt the results...how its gonna affect me my family etc etc....n most of times i end up not doing something i wanna do coz m worried abt how people will react to it....so this too a simple act of writing a blog is a very big procedure for me....but this is one of the few things i m putting it into action even though i m worried..........the intro is getting complicated i guess...but thats how i m a very complex person....n i hope writing helps me crystallize my thoughts n makes them less complex........chalo then cia....will write more tomo...